Sunday, August 7, 2011
To guys: The concept of multiple crushes and chasing after one of them?
I think I generally treat girls like that a little differently than any other girls. I would smile a little more around them, and compliment them and what not. Nothing big, just a comment on the way she's dressed or something like that. There are different ways a guy can like a girl, though. A crush is a crush, but even as a teenager you can like someone a lot. There's a certain way a guy looks at a girl he really likes. You can always tell, because it looks different from the way he looks at anyone else. But I think guys tend to smile more around girls the kind like in general. Even if it isn't a serious crush, there's no reason not to pursue it. Personally, if there was a girl I had a crush on, and I thought would be a good match for me, I'd go after her. It can always turn into something later, or it can just end, because, as you said, it's not a life commitment. But I don't think I would want to miss an opportunity. This all kind of depends on the guy though. There are guys who are only interested in finding the hottest girl, and then there are guys who care about personality and such. I can't help but be a romantic, so my answers probably lean pretty strongly to the sensitive guy side. Guys who care more about looks tend to be more bold with their hints. Like coming right out and saying that they think a girl is hot. It's always a good indicator if the guy texts you or chats you or something. That means he wants to talk to you, even when he doesn't have to. In personal experience, I've talked to multiple guys who were head over heels for one girl, though. We don't necessarily have multiple crushes, or even one. Personally, I really like one specific girl, and it goes beyond a crush. Our story is rather complicated, but in the beginning I dropped her little hints like being especially nice to her, complimenting her, texting her occasionally, and doing things like that. After a while I started texting her every day. Guys think like girls most of the time, really. It just depends on the guy.
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